As one who identifies as a male-ish homosexual, I found a home in the queer community amongst the bear community. This subculture was formed to welcome men with various girths, heights, and densities of body hair. It has existed for many years, and at times had forms of exclusivity. The bear community has both positive and negative aspects that helped shape my identity, and it has opened my eyes to evolving and encompassing broader aspects of the queer community within my life.
My coming out was a very rough process. Numerous relationships changed in a negative way which included my family and friends. When I found friends who accepted me as me, it was confusing in the beginning. They loved hearing me laugh, seeing me smile, and encouraged me to live my life just as it is. RuPaul says that as gay people, we get to choose our family. This is a glimpse of mine. So, welcome, to My Bearish Life.
Adam, Bellies and Cock, OH MY - 2025
Sean and Gary in the Calm Night Before the Storm of an EPIC Big Boys Pool Party - 2025
Toritilla NEEDS K So! - 2025
Jedi Joseph - 2025
Damion with Adam - 2025
A Bear Lives Here - 2025
Gary Chunk-y Dunkin' - 2025
Resting on the Hubby's Tush - 2025
Michael in Seattle - 2025
Sun Kissed on the Gay Beach in Chicago - 2024
Their Bearish Wedding Day - 2024
Matt with Adam - 2024
Adam! <3 Don't Die! <3 Damion - 2024
TJ, A Gay Slut at Archery Day - 2024
Joseph in Silver's Basement - 2024
Christopher Relaxing at Bears on Ice - 2024
Michael Visits Albuquerque - 2024
Do I Have Something on My Face Mask? - 2024
Cuddling on the Couch I - 2024
Cuddling on the Couch II - 2024
Cuddling on the Couch III - 2024
Alpha Pup Tigger - 2024
Eion Sharing His Beer with Adam - 2024
Embrace - 2024
Hello Lover, Goodbye Disease (Undetectable = Untransmittable) - 2024
Adam in His Sling at Bears on Ice - 2024
New Year, Same Glitter Beard - 2024
I Love This Human - 2023
Jostlen Getting Beat by Her Mother Sabryna Blue - 2023
After Jostlen Weener's Debut at the Leon's 1st Turnabout Employee Drag Show - 2023
His Shirt Says, "Best Pup Ever!" - 2023
Jasjyot and his Turban - 2023
Rehoboth Beach Laughter Before Cuddles - 2023
Frolicking on my Balcony at Bears, Bikers & Mayhem - 2023
Being a Bottom Takes Work - 2023
TK at Archery Day - 2021
Frank, the Big Bear that Don't Care - 2022
A Bearish Engagement - 2022
Joseph and his Scar from being Stabbed - 2022
Setting Up the Play Space at BBM - 2022
Scarlett Paints Allie - 2022
My Sling Comes with Instructions - 2022
Undressing at BBM - 2022
Bear Cheeks - 2022
Justin is Adorable - 2021
Becoming Cruella - 2021
Cruella de Bear - 2021
Christopher Swims Without a Shirt - 2021
Damion and Matt in Living Color - 2021
Matt's Manicure -2021
A Chubby Landscape - 2021
Tony at the Woods for Bears 2 - 2021
Joseph's Foot - 2021
Adam in Hagerstown - 2021
This Boy is on Fire - 2021
Bear Beach Belly - 2021
Christopher Napping at Archery Day - 2021
Justin is Sexy - 2021
Tracy Shoots While Eric Watches (Hosts of Archery Day) - 2021
Joseph Teaches Everyone Archery During Archery Day - 2021
Hanklin - 2021
Christopher in Palm Springs - 2021
Cork Contributing to the Underwear Tree at the Woods II - 2021
Tony Prepping to Become Gabby - 2021
Hank Sweats A LOT at Archery Day - 2021
TK and Justin Being Silly at Archery Day - 2021
Collin at BBM - 2021
Tony Near the Underwear Tree at the Woods Campground - 2021
Christopher Napping at Archery Day - 2021
Adam Kisses Justin at the Woods - 2021
Because Seth is Cream Filled - 2021
Tony at Rehoboth Beach - 2021
Matt and Damion's Bearish Vacation in West Virginia - 2020
Down with the Thiccness - 2020
A Bearish Game Night - 2020
Hiking with Jasjyot - 2020
Hiking Husbears - 2020
Bearly Napping in Front of the Fire - 2020
Damion is Cheeky - 2020
Houston, I am Breathing and Floating! - 2020
Damion's Nipple - 2020
Jasjyot and Parveer at the Drag Drive-in - 2020
Damion Relaxing in a Harness - 2020
Silly Jasjyot and Parveer - 2020
Bartender During the Pandemic - 2020
Bill Swimming at Bears on Ice - 2019
Parveer and Jasjyot - 2020
His First Sling Experience - 2020
Adam at the Houston Eagle - 2020
Damion Presents - 2020
Dan and Don at BBM - 2019
Damion at Baltimore Pride - 2019
See You in Two Months Jasjyot - 2019
Damion is THIRSTY at the Woods - 2019
I Remember Dallva From When I Visited J.J. in L.A. - 2019
A Bear and a Pig - 2019
Part of Our Bearish World - 2019
My CPAP Machine - 2019
Season's Greetings from Leon's - 2019
Relaxing and Reflecting - 2020
Jasjyot at Baltimore Orioles Pride Night - 2019
Welcum Sluts - 2019
Pokémon Harness - 2019
Adam is a Gay Ghost? -2019
Thanks For Pooping - 2019
Bill is Reflecting Me Photographing Him - 2019
“My Favorite Picture I Can Never Show My Mom!” ~Joseph - 2018
Archery Day - 2018
Eric and his Arrow - 2018
Body to Body - 2018
Damion at the Woods - 2018
Finally Breathing - 2018
Cell Block Jock - 2018
The Last Time I Saw J.J. in Person - 2016
Is it Time for a McGang Bang? - 2018
Bear Bowling in Gettysburg - 2018
Adam Playing DDR at Bears, Bikers & Mayhem - 2018
Sikh Love - 2018
Matt and Damion - 2018
Reflection - 2018
Ryan's Bear Butt - 2018
Tracy the Bear - 2018
Lube Left Behind - 2018
Tony is STILL Gay! - 2018
Glowing Wall - 2018
Matt and Damion Kissing
Matt's Chest - 2018
Jasjyot's Turban - 2018
Jasjyot's Gay Gasp - 2018
Nick and Leeloominaï Lekatariba-Lamina-Tchaï, Ekbat de Sebat Waldron - 2017
Bearpad Selling Art at NYC Pride - 2017
Hank's Body Positivity - 2017
Love Yourself (Rosy Hank) - 2017
J.J.'s Tattoo - 2016
No More Urinals - 2016
Sleepy Cub - 2016
Three - 2016
Four Feet - 2016
J.J.'s Furry Back - 2016
Party Pile - 2016
Adam's Butt on Escape - 2016
Joe Rubbing Drew - 2016
Drew and Joe Kissing at Bears on Ice - 2016
"I Will Send You the Videos" - 2016
Rubber - 2016
Rubbers - 2016
Daddy Bear Michael - 2016
Lucky 7 Ranch Campsite - 2016
Bear Hug - 2016
Bear Back - 2016
Playful James - 2016
On The Balcony at Bear Pride - 2016 nnnn
Adam Experimenting - 2016
Lubed Up Finger - 2016
I Am a Cub - 2015
Collin at the Woods for Bears 2 - 2021
Piggy Decor at Bears on Ice - 2020
Matt at the Fitzgerald Pool - 2019
Shower Shot - 2019
Allen Riding the Reindeer, Joseph - 2018