As one who identifies as a non-binary (male-ish) homosexual, I found a home in the queer community amongst the bear community. This subculture was formed to welcome men with various girths, heights, and densities of body hair. It has existed for many years, and at times had forms of exclusivity. The bear community has both positive and negative aspects that helped shape my identity, and it has opened my eyes to evolving and encompassing broader aspects of the queer community within my life.
My coming out was a very rough process. Numerous relationships changed in a negative way which included my family and friends. When I found friends who accepted me as me, it was confusing in the beginning. They loved hearing me laugh, seeing me smile, and encouraged me to live my life just as it is. RuPaul says that as gay people, we get to choose our family. This is a glimpse of mine. So, welcome, to My Bearish Life.
Joseph and his Scar from being Stabbed - 2022
Setting Up the Play Space at BBM - 2022
My Sling Comes with Instructions - 2022
Undressing at BBM - 2022
Bear Cheeks - 2022
Justin is Adorable - 2021
Cruella de Bear - 2021
Christopher - 2021
Damion and Matt in Living Color - 2021
Matt's Manicure -2021
Tony at the Woods for Bears 2 - 2021
Joseph's Foot - 2021
Adam in Hagerstown - 2021
A Chubby Landscape - 2021
This Boy is on Fire - 2021
Bear Beach Belly - 2021
Archery Day is Fun - 2021
Cork Flies a Kite I - 2021
Cork Flies a Kite II - 2021
Hanklin - 2021
Christopher in Palm Springs - 2021
Cork Contributing to the Underwear Tree at the Woods I - 2021
Cork Contributing to the Underwear Tree at the Woods II - 2021
Becoming Cruella - 2021
Because Seth is Cream Filled - 2021
Tony at Rehoboth Beach - 2021
Matt and Damion's Bearish Vacation in West Virginia - 2020
Down with the Thickness - 2020
July 19, 2020 - 2020
A Bearish Game Night - 2020
Hiking with Jasjyot - 2020
Hiking Husbears - 2020
Cork in the Pool - 2020
Jasjyot and Parveer at the Drag Drive-in - 2020
Houston, I am Breathing and Floating! - 2020
Fuck Luis - 2020
Bartender During the Pandemic - 2020
His First Sling Experience - 2020
Houston Eagle - 2020
Damion Presents - 2020
Relaxing and Reflecting - 2020
Mer-Bear - 2019
Season's Greetings from Leon's - 2019
Yes, I CAN do a Handstand - Adam at The Woods Campground - 2019
Welcum Sluts - 2019
Pokémon Harness - 2019
He Left His Underwear Behind After Having Sex with Us - 2019
Fuck Frank (in the Sex Maze) - 2019
Daddy's Bears, BBM [Bikers and Mayhem] Slut - 2019
Hello, Cleveland! - 2019
Donny - 2019
Bill's Reflection - 2019
Damion - 2018
Finally Breathing - 2018
Cell Block Jock - 2018
Party With Us - 2018
Bear Bowling - 2018
DDR Cub - 2018
Sikh Love - 2018
Bear Chest - 2018
Matt and Damion - 2018
Reflection - 2018
Lube Left Behind - 2018
Two Men Kissing - 2017
After Sex With Adam - 2017
Bearpad Selling Art at NYC Pride - 2017
Body Positivity - 2017
Time to Go Out - 2017
Love Yourself - 2017
J.J.'s Tattoo - 2016
Unzipped - 2016
Sleepy Cub - 2016
Three - 2016
J.J.'s Furry Back - 2016
Party Pile - 2016
Sagging - 2016
Bear Back - 2016
Boo Bear - 2016
Rubber - 2016
Rubbers - 2016
Daddy Bear Michael - 2016
Lucky 7 Ranch Campsite - 2016
Bear Hug - 2016
Out in NYC - 2018
Playful James - 2016
On The Balcony at Bear Pride - 2016
I Am a Cub - 2015
Doggie Bowls - 2017
Shower Shot - 2019
Matt at the Pool - 2019
Piggy Decor - 2020