As one who identifies as a male-ish homosexual, I found a home in the queer community amongst the bear community. This subculture was formed to welcome men with various girths, heights, and densities of body hair. It has existed for many years, and at times had forms of exclusivity. The bear community has both positive and negative aspects that helped shape my identity, and it has opened my eyes to evolving and encompassing broader aspects of the queer community within my life.
My coming out was a very rough process. Numerous relationships changed in a negative way which included my family and friends. When I found friends who accepted me as me, it was confusing in the beginning. They loved hearing me laugh, seeing me smile, and encouraged me to live my life just as it is. RuPaul says that as gay people, we get to choose our family. This is a glimpse of mine. So, welcome, to My Bearish Life.

Adam, Bellies and Cock, OH MY - 2025

Toritilla NEEDS K So! - 2025

Damion with Adam - 2025

A Bear Lives Here - 2025

Resting on the Hubby's Tush - 2025

Michael in Seattle - 2025

Sun Kissed on the Gay Beach in Chicago - 2024

Their Bearish Wedding Day - 2024

Matt with Adam - 2024

Adam! <3 Don't Die! <3 Damion - 2024

TJ, A Gay Slut at Archery Day - 2024

Joseph in Silver's Basement - 2024

Christopher Relaxing at Bears on Ice - 2024

Michael Visits Albuquerque - 2024

Do I Have Something on My Face Mask? - 2024

Cuddling on the Couch I - 2024

Cuddling on the Couch II - 2024

Cuddling on the Couch III - 2024

Alpha Pup Tigger - 2024

Eion Sharing His Beer with Adam - 2024

Embrace - 2024

Hello Lover, Goodbye Disease (Undetectable = Untransmittable) - 2024

Adam in His Sling at Bears on Ice - 2024

New Year, Same Glitter Beard - 2024

I Love This Human - 2023

Jostlen Getting Beat by Her Mother Sabryna Blue - 2023

After Jostlen Weener's Debut at the Leon's 1st Turnabout Employee Drag Show - 2023

His Shirt Says, "Best Pup Ever!" - 2023

Jasjyot and his Turban - 2023

Rehoboth Beach Laughter Before Cuddles - 2023

Frolicking on my Balcony at Bears, Bikers & Mayhem - 2023

Being a Bottom Takes Work - 2023

TK at Archery Day - 2021

Frank, the Big Bear that Don't Care - 2022

A Bearish Engagement - 2022

Joseph and his Scar from being Stabbed - 2022

Setting Up the Play Space at BBM - 2022

Scarlett Paints Allie - 2022

My Sling Comes with Instructions - 2022

Undressing at BBM - 2022

Bear Cheeks - 2022

Justin is Adorable - 2021

Becoming Cruella - 2021

Cruella de Bear - 2021

Christopher Swims Without a Shirt - 2021

Damion and Matt in Living Color - 2021

Matt's Manicure -2021

A Chubby Landscape - 2021

Tony at the Woods for Bears 2 - 2021

Joseph's Foot - 2021

Adam in Hagerstown - 2021

This Boy is on Fire - 2021

Bear Beach Belly - 2021

Christopher Napping at Archery Day - 2021

Justin is Sexy - 2021

Tracy Shoots While Eric Watches (Hosts of Archery Day) - 2021

Joseph Teaches Everyone Archery During Archery Day - 2021

Hanklin - 2021

Christopher in Palm Springs - 2021

Cork Contributing to the Underwear Tree at the Woods II - 2021

Tony Prepping to Become Gabby - 2021

Hank Sweats A LOT at Archery Day - 2021

TK and Justin Being Silly at Archery Day - 2021

Collin at BBM - 2021

Tony Near the Underwear Tree at the Woods Campground - 2021

Christopher Napping at Archery Day - 2021

Adam Kisses Justin at the Woods - 2021

Because Seth is Cream Filled - 2021

Tony at Rehoboth Beach - 2021

Matt and Damion's Bearish Vacation in West Virginia - 2020

Down with the Thiccness - 2020

A Bearish Game Night - 2020

Hiking with Jasjyot - 2020

Hiking Husbears - 2020

Bearly Napping in Front of the Fire - 2020

Damion is Cheeky - 2020

Houston, I am Breathing and Floating! - 2020

Damion's Nipple - 2020

Jasjyot and Parveer at the Drag Drive-in - 2020

Damion Relaxing in a Harness - 2020

Silly Jasjyot and Parveer - 2020

Bartender During the Pandemic - 2020

Bill Swimming at Bears on Ice - 2019

Parveer and Jasjyot - 2020

His First Sling Experience - 2020

Adam at the Houston Eagle - 2020

Damion Presents - 2020

Dan and Don at BBM - 2019

Damion at Baltimore Pride - 2019

See You in Two Months Jasjyot - 2019

Damion is THIRSTY at the Woods - 2019

I Remember Dallva From When I Visited J.J. in L.A. - 2019

A Bear and a Pig - 2019

Part of Our Bearish World - 2019

My CPAP Machine - 2019

Season's Greetings from Leon's - 2019

Relaxing and Reflecting - 2020

Jasjyot at Baltimore Orioles Pride Night - 2019

Welcum Sluts - 2019

Pokémon Harness - 2019

Adam is a Gay Ghost? -2019

Thanks For Pooping - 2019

Bill is Reflecting Me Photographing Him - 2019



“My Favorite Picture I Can Never Show My Mom!” ~Joseph - 2018


Archery Day - 2018

Eric and his Arrow - 2018

Body to Body - 2018



Damion at the Woods - 2018

Finally Breathing - 2018

Cell Block Jock - 2018


The Last Time I Saw J.J. in Person - 2016

Is it Time for a McGang Bang? - 2018

Bear Bowling in Gettysburg - 2018

Adam Playing DDR at Bears, Bikers & Mayhem - 2018


Sikh Love - 2018

Matt and Damion - 2018


Reflection - 2018

Ryan's Bear Butt - 2018

Tracy the Bear - 2018

Lube Left Behind - 2018

Tony is STILL Gay! - 2018

Glowing Wall - 2018

Matt and Damion Kissing

Matt's Chest - 2018

Jasjyot's Turban - 2018

Jasjyot's Gay Gasp - 2018

Nick and Leeloominaï Lekatariba-Lamina-Tchaï, Ekbat de Sebat Waldron - 2017

Bearpad Selling Art at NYC Pride - 2017

Hank's Body Positivity - 2017

Love Yourself (Rosy Hank) - 2017

J.J.'s Tattoo - 2016

No More Urinals - 2016


Sleepy Cub - 2016

Three - 2016

Four Feet - 2016

J.J.'s Furry Back - 2016

Party Pile - 2016

Adam's Butt on Escape - 2016

Joe Rubbing Drew - 2016

Drew and Joe Kissing at Bears on Ice - 2016

"I Will Send You the Videos" - 2016

Rubber - 2016

Rubbers - 2016

Daddy Bear Michael - 2016

Lucky 7 Ranch Campsite - 2016

Bear Hug - 2016

Bear Back - 2016

Playful James - 2016

On The Balcony at Bear Pride - 2016 nnnn

Adam Experimenting - 2016

Lubed Up Finger - 2016

I Am a Cub - 2015


Collin at the Woods for Bears 2 - 2021

Piggy Decor at Bears on Ice - 2020

Matt at the Fitzgerald Pool - 2019

Shower Shot - 2019

Allen Riding the Reindeer, Joseph - 2018