As one who identifies as a non-binary (male-ish) homosexual, I found a home in the queer community amongst the bear community. This subculture was formed to welcome men with various girths, heights, and densities of body hair. It has existed for many years, and at times had forms of exclusivity. The bear community has both positive and negative aspects that helped shape my identity, and it has opened my eyes to evolving and encompassing broader aspects of the queer community within my life.
My coming out was a very rough process. Numerous relationships changed in a negative way which included my family and friends. When I found friends who accepted me as me, it was confusing in the beginning. They loved hearing me laugh, seeing me smile, and encouraged me to live my life just as it is. RuPaul says that as gay people, we get to choose our family. This is a glimpse of mine. So, welcome, to My Bearish Life.

Joseph and his Scar from being Stabbed - 2022

Setting Up the Play Space at BBM - 2022

My Sling Comes with Instructions - 2022

Undressing at BBM - 2022

Bear Cheeks - 2022

Justin is Adorable - 2021

Cruella de Bear - 2021

Christopher - 2021

Damion and Matt in Living Color - 2021

Matt's Manicure -2021

Tony at the Woods for Bears 2 - 2021

Joseph's Foot - 2021

Adam in Hagerstown - 2021

A Chubby Landscape - 2021

This Boy is on Fire - 2021

Bear Beach Belly - 2021

Archery Day is Fun - 2021

Cork Flies a Kite I - 2021

Cork Flies a Kite II - 2021

Hanklin - 2021

Christopher in Palm Springs - 2021

Cork Contributing to the Underwear Tree at the Woods I - 2021

Cork Contributing to the Underwear Tree at the Woods II - 2021

Becoming Cruella - 2021

Because Seth is Cream Filled - 2021

Tony at Rehoboth Beach - 2021

Matt and Damion's Bearish Vacation in West Virginia - 2020

Down with the Thickness - 2020

July 19, 2020 - 2020

A Bearish Game Night - 2020

Hiking with Jasjyot - 2020

Hiking Husbears - 2020

Cork in the Pool - 2020

Jasjyot and Parveer at the Drag Drive-in - 2020

Houston, I am Breathing and Floating! - 2020

Fuck Luis - 2020

Bartender During the Pandemic - 2020

His First Sling Experience - 2020

Houston Eagle - 2020

Damion Presents - 2020

Relaxing and Reflecting - 2020

Mer-Bear - 2019

Season's Greetings from Leon's - 2019

Yes, I CAN do a Handstand - Adam at The Woods Campground - 2019

Welcum Sluts - 2019

Pokémon Harness - 2019

He Left His Underwear Behind After Having Sex with Us - 2019

Fuck Frank (in the Sex Maze) - 2019

Daddy's Bears, BBM [Bikers and Mayhem] Slut - 2019

Hello, Cleveland! - 2019

Donny - 2019

Bill's Reflection - 2019













Damion - 2018


Finally Breathing - 2018

Cell Block Jock - 2018


Party With Us - 2018

Bear Bowling - 2018


DDR Cub - 2018


Sikh Love - 2018

Bear Chest - 2018

Matt and Damion - 2018


Reflection - 2018



Lube Left Behind - 2018

Two Men Kissing - 2017


After Sex With Adam - 2017


Bearpad Selling Art at NYC Pride - 2017

Body Positivity - 2017

Time to Go Out - 2017

Love Yourself - 2017

J.J.'s Tattoo - 2016



Unzipped - 2016

Sleepy Cub - 2016

Three - 2016

J.J.'s Furry Back - 2016

Party Pile - 2016

Sagging - 2016

Bear Back - 2016

Boo Bear - 2016

Rubber - 2016

Rubbers - 2016


Daddy Bear Michael - 2016

Lucky 7 Ranch Campsite - 2016

Bear Hug - 2016

Out in NYC - 2018

Playful James - 2016

On The Balcony at Bear Pride - 2016

I Am a Cub - 2015


Doggie Bowls - 2017

Shower Shot - 2019

Matt at the Pool - 2019

Piggy Decor - 2020